Are you a Nice Guy?

• Nice Guys are givers – giving makes them feel good.
• Nice Guys fix and care take – if there is a problem the nice guy will try to fix it.
• Nice Guys seek approval from others – they seek validation and avoid disapproval.
• Nice Guys avoid conflict – they avoid upsetting people, often by being agreeable.
• Nice Guys believe they must hide their perceived flaws and mistakes
• Nice Guys seek the “right” way to do things – they believe there is a problem-free life.
• Nice Guys repress their feelings – they analyze rather than feel
• Nice Guys often try to be different from their fathers
• Nice guys are often more comfortable relating to women than to men – they try to be different from other men and frequently seek approval from girls.
• Nice Guys have difficulty making their needs a priority – they feel it is selfish to put their own needs first.
• Nice Guys often become emotionally dependant on their partner – they focus on their partner with huge amounts of energy.